“Married Men Coming Out” enables a man to come to terms with the issues surrounding his coming out, reduce and alleviate some of his fears, and give him the strength and courage to become not only a role model for others, but a pioneer and an educator. “The greatest gift you can give anyone is the truest essence of yourself.”
The purpose of this book is not to provide reasons for or against homosexuality. It is, though, a guidebook for those who, having lived a heterosexual lifestyle, realize that they’ve made a mistake in denying and suppressing their true identity — that of being attracted to members of their own sex — and now realize that being married and even having children, they can no longer live a double life. They need to be who and what they are: gay.
This particular subject receives intense public scrutiny, mostly by way of scandals, thus, making the prospect of coming out that much more terrifying for any man. This book alleviates many of the fears attached to coming out by covering everything a man must face giving him in-depth, personal and data-rich insights, clarity, and focus. Personal stories of those who attended the Married Men’s Coming Out Group that I facilitated for six years illustrate numerable situations, many poignant, some heartbreaking, and others humorous.
Married men were and still are coming out of the woodwork to finally be who they truly are. No more are they willing to compartmentalize their lives, their relationships, and their hearts — no matter what their religion, state and federal laws, or current trends may be telling them.
At heart, this book is about authenticity. Being a non-denominational term, authenticity is described as: “…having a genuine…authority in opposition to that which is false, fictitious, or counterfeit.” All human beings want to be the opposite of false, fictitious or counterfeit, yet the vicissitudes of life are such that we work incredibly hard doing just the opposite. Hence, the need for this book is paramount as we each seek to live authentically and in so doing, find some level of inner peace, self-acceptance, integrity, joy, and love without which the world may not evolve to reflect these essential attributes for all of mankind.
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“A well crafted and enjoyable read on this timely topic”
Five Star Review on Amazon By Jedidolphnguy
Why not give this insightful and valuable personal growth book 5 stars. It is masterfully written, and covers all you want to know (and maybe even more) about this somewhat edgy topic. For me personally, it filled in many of the blanks for a part of my life’s journey and expressed real stories that resonated my own discovery of self as a married man who now can identify as gay. Whether you are gay or straight or somewhere off the chart, this book will add light and substance to what it is like and what it may take to navigate these waters in today’s overly dramatic and media frenzied world. This book is insightful and real, and the testimonials add weight to the books purpose. A valuable read on this topic for everyone.
About the Author
Since 1995, I’ve been ghost writing books for others. The time has come to launch my own work out into the world. After leading many lives (as a professional dancer in New York to becoming an expert in computer-based training, to facilitating therapy groups, and working for large corporations and the military) my journey has brought me to a love of writing. I have but one criteria when working with prospective clients: your subject must somehow uplift humanity. The same applies to my own books.
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